Conférence TED avec Dan Ariely sur la motivation au travail
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Very interesting research on #BeharviorialEconomics+#Irrationality by creative @DanAriely in original books+videos http://danariely.com/videos/#TOC22
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Very interesting research on #BeharviorialEconomics+#Irrationality by creative @DanAriely in original books+videos http://danariely.com/videos/#TOC22
ng Thought provoking story sent by Anupam Karn to Paulo Coelho, who tweeted it
A master asked his disciples:
‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’
the disciples thought for a while, and one of them said
‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’
‘But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you? ‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’
The disciples gave him some other answers but none satisfied the master.
Finally he explained:
‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’
Then the master asked:A huge lesson to integrate soon in one´s life ...
‘What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’
And he finally said:‘When they love each other even more, what happens?
‘They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love.
‘Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’
... The two different pieces of balance
One image I got from Shiva Nata-ing about balance looked something like this:
Two powerful things held together by a bond of energy. When I asked for more clarity about this, I realized that the two things are the two parts of balance: stability and fluidity. These are the two qualities that must be maintained together in order for balance to work, of course.
Stability is:
Fluidity is:
- Structure
- Rationality
- Strength
- Knowledge
- Stillness
Stability without Fluidity is: rigidity. Painful tension. A rut.
- Openness
- Creativity
- Flexibility
- Intuition
- Flow
Fluidity without Stability is: floppiness. No boundaries. Chaos.(One caution: these are true for me. Not universally true!)
The connection between the two is the body. This was an important clue for me, something I know but perhaps hadn’t solidified into words. Connection with the body brings these two things together. Bringing stability into the body, bringing fluidity into the body, this creates balance.
Pursuing balance seemed kind of tricky when I started this week of inquiry: because isn’t balance just a state you achieve? Like mindfulness — easy to get, but hard to maintain? So shouldn’t I be able to get there instantly?
Well, maybe it’s a little bit like that. But this image and the idea of the two qualities I need to cultivate, fluidity and stability, this gives me a path to follow. I can choose activities that cultivate one or the other.
So helpful...