Imagine a conference that didn’t start with a loaded agenda, but instead an empty one.Thanks so much for this sage way, Paul!
Imagine all the people there were the right people because they has chosen to be there and wanted to really explore something, or solve something together.
Imagine a conference where we were relaxed but conscious about time, and where nobody ever stayed where they didn’t feel they wanted to, where it was okay to get up in e middle of a session and follow your two feet to a place you’d rather be.
And imagine a conference where nothing dragged on longer than it needed to.
Imagine that conference was this one, and that empty agenda over there with time slots and meeting spaces was your agenda waiting to be filled by you, right here, right now.
And all you had to do was step up and announce your session, and whatever happens is what happens, whoever comes are there because it is right for them to be there, and however long it lasts, is the right length of time for it to be.
Imagine we were starting right now…
(Welcome the Silence. Listen. And wait…)
So, this is how I sometimes address an opening circle. Fairly quick, minimal fuss, then I step back and ensure the circle is encountering the space of possibility, not me.
It’s always led to a glorious embarrassing silence. Then like little cleansing raindrops, tentative at first, then a pitter patter, and then the music of profusion. And there’s a sense of a community co-creating, not a group attempting to confirm to a process.
It isn’t the only way to do an introduction. But hey, try it.